Sex advice: the answers you need
Kathy Greaves
Issue date: 10/1/08 Section: Forum
Given that, here are some things to think about. Do you want to incorporate the simulation of intercourse into your vibrator session? If so, then you would want to pick a product that is phallic shaped and vibrates. Sometimes it is only the phallic part that vibrates. In essence, it's a vibrating penis. Now maybe it's just me, but you have to see how that is not natural. I mean, come on. A vibrating penis? Doesn't mean it won't feel good. Just know that very few men have a penis that vibrates all on its own. Maybe the guys here should be a bit concerned as the vibrating dildo could be a tough act to follow. Ah, I digress.
Other vibrating dildos have an additional feature that sticks up from the phallic part. This enables the user to simulate intercourse while the additional feature sits outside the vagina and stimulates the clitoris. This is more along the lines of a "have your cake and eat it too" scenario.
If you don't want to simulate intercourse, then you just need a basic vibrator. Still, there are lots of choices out there. These include battery-operated vibrators, electric vibrators, waterproof vibrators, G-spot vibrators, remote - controlled vibrators, mini vibrators (as small as 2 inches long) and wearable vibrators. Given all of that, my suggestion would be to go to www.goodvibes.com and check out their vibrators. It is one of the best selections I've seen. Read the detailed descriptions as well as the customer reviews. In many instances, it is more a matter of personal preference than anything specific. Some women buy numerous vibrators before they find one that is just right.
Just as a side note, those contraptions that we call "massagers" that are marketed as back massagers - yeah, those are vibrators and many women have been known to use their "back massagers" to reach orgasm. Just like many women have been known to use a hand-held shower head to reach orgasm. Women can be quite creative when it comes to self-stimulation.
Other vibrating dildos have an additional feature that sticks up from the phallic part. This enables the user to simulate intercourse while the additional feature sits outside the vagina and stimulates the clitoris. This is more along the lines of a "have your cake and eat it too" scenario.
If you don't want to simulate intercourse, then you just need a basic vibrator. Still, there are lots of choices out there. These include battery-operated vibrators, electric vibrators, waterproof vibrators, G-spot vibrators, remote - controlled vibrators, mini vibrators (as small as 2 inches long) and wearable vibrators. Given all of that, my suggestion would be to go to www.goodvibes.com and check out their vibrators. It is one of the best selections I've seen. Read the detailed descriptions as well as the customer reviews. In many instances, it is more a matter of personal preference than anything specific. Some women buy numerous vibrators before they find one that is just right.
Just as a side note, those contraptions that we call "massagers" that are marketed as back massagers - yeah, those are vibrators and many women have been known to use their "back massagers" to reach orgasm. Just like many women have been known to use a hand-held shower head to reach orgasm. Women can be quite creative when it comes to self-stimulation.
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